ONE OF SCHOOL LIBRARY JOURNAL's BEST BOOKS OF 2022 InYou Ruined It, Anastasia Higginbotham, acclaimed author ofNot My Idea: A Book About Whiteness, sheds light on the confusion and pain that many children feel in the aftermath of incest and sexual assault.When 11-year-old Dawn discloses that a favorite cousin sexually assaulted her, it's hard to tell what hurts more: the betrayal or the fall-out. After all, everyone always says to tell someone, but does this mean she'll never get to hang out with him again? What if he goes to jail?And the biggest question of all:How will she know if she can trust someone again?You Ruined Itis a testament to a child's experience of a confusing betrayal, her broken heart, and the loved ones who help her piece it back together.I wish I had this magical brave book when I was young and being abused. So beautifully rendered and carefully told. May it inspire anyone caught in childhood sexual abuse to tell their story and get free.V (formerly EVE ENSLER), award-winning playwright and author of bestsellersThe Vagina MonologuesandThe Apology

 

 

This book is the winner of numerous awards

This book is part of a book series called Ordinary Terrible Things .

This book has been graded for interest at 8-12 years.

There are 96 pages in this book. This book was published in 2022 by Dottir Press .

Anastasia Higginbotham is the author and illustrator of Divorce Is the Worst , Death Is Stupid , and Tell Me About Sex, Grandma -all part of the Ordinary Terrible Things series. She lives in Brooklyn. Librarians love her, but not as much as she loves them.